My friend Joyce has been asking me to update so here goes.... Fortunately I have no horrible stories to tell - no constant puking, no dislikes, no complaints. I have however been going a little too ga-ga over multigrain (specifically and not white) toasts with lots of butter and honey. I am also thankful that I am not in KK as I think I would've doubled my weight by now and would look close to resembling me pregnant with Tom. I recall rather vividly Simon Hoskins saying I was as big as a buffalo then...DO NOT want to look like that again! [Pic: 5 months pregnant, 118 days to go]
Amcare Women & Children's Hospital in Lido, Beijing is the choice venue to welcome my daughter into this world. I have only just started going there for my prenatal check-ups having previously gone to Beijing Vista Clinic. Unfortunately Vista don't do deliveries so after some research I found Amcare which coincidently is less than 10mins away from our new apartment and offers much better facilities than Vista at a much more reasonable price.
Issues with this pregnancy: blood tests. Acccording to Amcare prenatal care schedule you are required to have a total of 8 blood tests between weeks 12 and 40. They either take from your arm (5 times) or do capillary blood testing (prick your finger). I have issues with needles and although this has improved tremendously over the years I still am uncomfortable with them. As I am new to Amcare my next appointment may require a blood test - which will make it my fourth test this pregnancy. Didn't even have one when I was expecting Tom so I feel a little overwhelmed with the tests. You tell them your blood type and rhesus type and they tell you they need to have a record of it presumably via their own lab test that what you say is of course, true. Perhaps this is the same in other parts of the world...
Anyway, all is going well with baby. She is healthy and is developing as expected. She's quite active and is now quite sensitive to J's, T's and my voice. Think she even enjoys the stories we read to Tom at bedtime as there is a lot of wriggling going on in my belly. Tom knows he's having a sister and would, every now and again, say good morning to her and would kiss my belly and say "hi, baby" which is always nice to see. [Pic: First glimpse. 3D scan at 14 weeks old
Have started stocking up on her clothes. Went to Yashow market (Jatt this is where I got your bag) the other day and when you are confronted with so many choices it's quite hard to resist especially when they are so affordable. Going again in a couple of weeks time to bring my Dutch friend Dolly there so she could stock up for her baby girl due in mid June. My mum, who'll be here for a month from mid-July) is helping me bring over some of T's baby stuff so I need not stock up much but who can resist buying these pretty little body suits!
Next appointment is 9th April when I'll be 24 weeks. Fingers crossed blood test not required!
Friday, April 04, 2008
My pregnancy...
Thursday, April 03, 2008
Spring in Beijing
Trees are fast sprouting leaves and the blossoms have emerged in abudance. Spring has finally arrived in Beijing. The weather has thankfully warmed up - nothing compared to what we experienced this time last year when it was freezing cold. Lately we've been enjoying daytime temperatures of above 10 degrees (even going up to 20 degrees at one stage) accompanied with the wonderful Mr. Sun and blue skies. Pollution is, on the whole, decreasing evidence of the Government's effort in countering the situation in time for China's biggest event of the year. I have heard that the weather will be perfecto during the 2 months when the main Olympics and Paralympics take place in the capital with zero pollution and what a perfect time then to welcome our daughter into the world.
Today we decided to visit Agrilandia which was highly recommended by tbjKids in their March edition. The only thing they failed to mention was that it's desolate in early Spring and that it's best to visit in the Summer months! Despite this fact, and due to the warm sunny day, we enjoyed our time in the sun strolling pass the large chicken area and another animal area which is their mini zoo, throwing stones in their fishing pond (oops!), playing in the children's play area (which is basically a very large sand pit in which you will find four sets of swings and a slide set), pick strawberries in their green house and have authentic yummy Italian lunch. Hope we'll have time to visit it in it's peak season as at the moment it looks like it's in need of a good maintenance team. But we had a wonderful time so can't complain and am looking forward to those juicy strawberries for dessert tonight!
Tom begins his half day, 3 days a week school next week at Ivy Bilingual. I am hoping he will take it well and will enjoy having the company of kids his own age. My pregnancy is progressing well and I've found a place to have the baby which is less than 10 mins away from our new apartment - fantastic! Took Tom there to have a blood test a couple of days back - they actually took 5cc of blood! Poor boy had a proper butterfly needle in the back of his hand for about 3 mins - it was not pleasant to watch and I was glad he didn't cry a bit. His reaction was just "mummy... aow"
Some pics of us basking in Beijing's spring sun...
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
Into 2nd Trimester and moving apartment...
Pregnant again...
Today I begin my second trimester and pregnancy the second time round has thankfully been better than my first. We don't know the baby's sex yet but all is well and that's all that matters. Still deciding where to have the baby - KK or Beijing but only time will tell I suppose as summer is a busy month for James at Bayhood. Going back home to KK on Wednesday next week and looking forward to going to my doctor there as not quite satisfied with the doctor here!!
Moving apartment...
With the impending new arrival we thought it would be good to move to a bigger place so we'll be saying bye-bye to our Lu Gang apartment next week and will start moving things over today to our new place in Jiamei Fengshang. It's on the 17th Floor and much quieter than our current place which we're looking forward to - less traffic noise and hopefully not much banging from nearby contruction sites. Anyway, I like it very much as it's much cleaner than Lu Gang and much more organised. We're lucky again to have landlords who can speak English so will not have a problem communicating.
Looking forward now to going back home for some sun, sea and lots of relaxation. Think Thomas is getting fed-up wearing so many layers so he'll be happy to just be running around in shorts and t-shirts!
Some pics for those of you who haven't seen the pics on facebook....
Matt and Michelle's wedding on 30th Nov, 2007
Thursday, October 18, 2007
October
September went by quite quickly. We celebrated Tom's second birthday with a cosy gathering and Tom got his plane cake (I only realised after looking at pics that his 1st birthday and christening cakes are the same colour as his 2nd birthday cake!!! Mental note to make sure next year I use a different colour.
I think S&J did enjoy their trip over to see us but they could have done without the final three days of bug attack. But they managed Xian to see the terracotta warriors, forbidden city, summer palace, a stay at the Raffles Beijing and of course the great wall.
The weather is thankfully not as cold as that in the UK but we are starting to feel the dryness and electricity shocks between me and Tom are becoming far too frequent for my liking. Note: the humidifier in the apartment doesn't seem to do it's job properly though my husband had predicted this fault blaming the price - but hey! when in china try to buy cheap right?....perhaps not...perhaps we need two units...
Wednesday, August 08, 2007
Lynn's Wedding
Our trip to KK for Lynn's wedding can be described in one word - fast. The wedding went as planned and so many turned up for the evening reception that there was no way to find friends. Relatives from my dad's side of the family came with lots of tapai (local rice wine) to drink and think everyone had a sip from specially made bamboo glasses.
Thomas started out looking very smart in his pageboy outfit but as he fell asleep when we arrived in church, he didn't make it for the aisle procession. Then because there was no air-conditioning in the church, my boy ended up so hot and sweaty he decided it was more fun playing with his little Emirates plane and eating raisins!
Anyhow, Lynn looked beautiful in her gown and was almost in tears as she recited her vows. Someone made a kiss sound over the microphone just as Vijay was about to give Lynn a kiss on the cheek as instructed by the priest (!) which shocked not only Vijay but also the priest. As is was a wedding blessing i.e. not full service, the whole thing was finished in less than an hour and we were off to my mum's house for the luncheon. The heavy downpour that arrived with the bridal car did not hamper our celebration and so it was on with the sosopon (drinking tapai from the huge jars with bamboo straws).
KK had changed in the short time since we've been away for the better - traffic less conjested due to opening of bypass. Anyhow, even though there was rain some days it was so good to wake up to blue skies and no pollution.
Sunday, June 10, 2007
Beijing...leisurely times
Here are some pics of our daily life in the Chinese capital...
Visits to the park... Tom's favourite place to practice his golf swings. People here are into being healthy so you will see lots in the park exercising or early weekend mornings you will see them practice their fox trots. One of their favourite past time is flying kites but you can also catch them sleeping on the park benches as well as take their dates for a stroll - ah how romantic!
At home... We like our 2-bedroom apartment on the 15th floor. Our block is one of the 11 blocks of apartments called Lu Gang Jia Yuan Community located in the north of the city in the Wangjing (aka mini Korea) area. It's convenient in many ways: about 10mins away from work for J, a huge park is just next door, supermarkets and other shopping areas close by and the airport is only 20mins away.
Playtime at playgyms and at Gymboree....
Hong Kong
We enjoyed Hong Kong very much. Coming out from Beijing, it was like a breath of fresh air - the pollution there isn't as bad - but being understood by almost everyone was truly wonderful. Anyway, though our visit was mainly for reasons pertaining to visa extentions we tried to cramp in shopping and some sightseeing. Shopping was good - bought lots of stuff for Tom - and we also replaced our not-working camera with a new slim version.
Not that we went into every shopping mall but our favourite shopping centre was the Harbour City on the Kowlood part of the territory. The night cruise around Victoria Harbour in a Chinese junk called aqualuna was also enjoyable. The sound and light show was good too but think it would have been better, we think, if we were watching from the Kowloon side of the harbour instead of being on the boat. Anyway, the tram up to The Peak was also interesting and the views of HK from up there is fabulous.
Why Tom had fun? He got to go on an underground train (much better than the London underground btw), a boat, a tram, saw helicopters or helicop as he calls them, a car, a bus and if you include the plane ride well that just made his day. As you might have gathered by now - he loves anything mechanical.
Friday, June 08, 2007
Tourists in Beijing...
Places we've visited so far... Is a large square of concrete slabs and like most touristy places in Beijing, is very crowded. The 'square' is actually part of the main gate through which you enter into the Forbidden City. When we went, there were loads of local tourists and a few groups of foreign tourists. Mao looks down upon us from the gate itself and he, together with the gate, seem to be the most sought after photo background. Our thoughts were on the pro-democrasy events of 1989 which became our main topic of conversation on site. Anyway, didn't stay very long as Wangfujing (main shopping area about 10 mins walk away) was calling and well, there were other places to explore... Wangfujing Snack Street Feel like having some Chinese satays? What about some scorpions? There are a lot of weird culinary treats here but if you're adventurous and like to try everything then there's loads to fill your appetite. I read about the place in Lonely Planet but my mum and I stumbled upon it by chance - because lots of people were coming out of there with yummy looking finger food. Have yet to take James there. When you take organised tours they might also take you to The Ming Tombs, The Beijing Jade Museum and The Beijing Institute of Traditional Medicine amongst other places. They are interesting in their own way esp. the Ming Tombs but places like the Jade Museum and the traditional meds centre, well, they just think you're loaded and can't wait to spend a few or hopefully a hundred or so kuai (slang for Renmembi). Few photos taken in these places as I allowed Tom to fiddle so much with the camera it began to not work i.e. left pic taken at the tomb of Emperor Chang Ling at the Ming Tombs.
The Great Wall - Badaling section
First time we went was in early March. There was still snow up in the mountains and the wind was bitter cold. Tom was not impressed! James and his colleagues did the walk up to the top whilst Tom and I sought refuge in a cafe and had a delicious hot chocolate. Badaling is very tourist oriented with a shops lining the road up to the entrance. The second time Tom and I went up was with my mum in April. Weather was much better and all three managed to walk all the way up to the highest point (at least at Badaling anyway). My mum didn't think it was that tiring but I think some of the other climbers beg to differ! This time we went up via what they call sliding cars which are basically carts which travel on rollercoaster like rails. Tom thought the trip up was scary but the trip down was fun. Was it safe? I was strapped on and Tom's safety belt were my arms - but yes safe as the carts travelled attached to one another (there are 15 carts, 1 per person) travelling at slowish speed.
Thursday, June 07, 2007
Beijing...To begin with
Many of you have been asking about our life in Beijing and what it’s like. As with other places in the world, Beijing has its positives and negatives. Note: please bear in mind the following is Beijing according to me who has only been here for 3 months.
No. 1: Beijing's rather infamous smoggy environment. When Tom and I first came to land at Beijing's Capital Airport we could not see the city until we were about 200 metres (well that’s what it felt like) from the ground. What I initially thought to be thick clouds, I soon discovered to be an almost impenetrable layer of smog aka pollution. When we got out of the airport that morning of 1st March, I looked up to the sky and almost choked. For a second I couldn’t breathe. Immediate thought: Shock. I truly have taken blue skies for granted and I missed them terribly. This is all despite prior warnings from husband. Sad Fact 1: Beijing has a target quota ‘blue sky days’ per year - think its 238. We rejoice when we wake up to a blue sky day. Sad Fact 2: Beijingers have started to see stars at night only recently. Sad Fact 3: The smoggy air is filled with pollution from nearby factories, construction sites and car fumes (an apparent source of lead poisoning because of the number of cars on the road - did you know that people here buy a total of 1,000 cars per day?!). Note: Next time you see pics of Beijingers with surgical masks on it really is NOT funny. Positive Fact 1: The most infectious disease is apparently the common cold - hurray! Those SARS days are thankfully gone. [Pic above: This is what we woke up to today - a non-blue sky day of course.] Blue sky days are beautiful...and look at that sunset...
No. 2: Extreme temperatures. It gets incredibly freezing cold in the winter (I have yet to experience this btw) and oven temperatures (this began two days ago) in the summer. Apparently winter sees drops in temperatures to below - 15° Celsius whilst in the summer we enjoy temperatures up to 40° Celsius. And by the way throughout these times it’s dry, sometimes windy (bitter cold wind in the winter) though better in the summer I suppose. Sad Fact 4: Because of freezing temps, Beijing is cloaked with one colour in winter - dirty claylike gray. Sad Fact 5: Body lotion is essential unless you can live with scaly, dry and itchy skin. Positive Fact 2: This year they recorded the highest temps in Jan & Feb (normally the coldest months) of up to 16° Celsius. Very good news for husband who is more accustomed to Sabah weather. Positive Fact 3: Spring, and am told, particularly Autumn is wonderful weather and is best time to visit. [Pic: Winter scene from apartment window and of Tom enjoying his first snow]
No. 3: Construction seems never ending. The city is physically developing fast. When we first chose the apartment in December, James warned that there was still on-going construction. Why am I not surprised that the on-going is still on-going? Sad Fact 6: There are construction sites every 200 or so metres. Which brings us to Positive Fact 4: Tom finds it fun to count number of cranes seen. In the words of my son, wow! Positive Fact 5: In anticipation of providing blue sky days during Olympic, we’ve heard that all construction will stop on 1st Jan 2008.
No. 4: Spitting is common. Sad Fact 7: My son thinks it’s funny and will attempt to imitate when I am not looking.
Body odour and a post-meal "garlic smell" inside cabs were persistent issues in written complaints from foreign officials and executives said his colleague, Liu Tongliang. "On top of that, many drivers love to smoke," said Liu Tongliang. "Some sensitive female passengers smell it, then refuse to get in the car."
[pic - Notice the dish?]
Saturday, March 17, 2007
Copenhagen
Friday, September 01, 2006
christening
A little slow (!!) in updating (sorry Lynn and Si). Got back from our holiday in Wells, England and we had a very enjoyable time especially Tom. The christening was just as we expected if not better. Weather was wonderful and we enjoyed our friends' company.
After the Christening service...
Tom certainly enjoyed the company of Luca Fricker (only days younger than T, our friends Geoff and Gemma's son) and Lenka Carter (1yr8mths - James' cousin Kirsty's daughter). Kirsty stood in for Tom's godmother, Shirley, who couldn't make it to the christening.
Luca
and Lenka
The pic below is of us after the Christening with the Rev. Goodman, Simon Hoskins (Godfather), Lenka and Kirsty, and Grandma and Grandpa.
With Grandpa (Grandma was very busy so did not get to take pic with her!) inside the church and with daddy (below) outside
Pics Below: With Godfather then Si looking very comfortable. With Matt and Michelle - thank you Matt for taking the video at Church. Pics below are of Tom with his Great Grandpa Harold and his christening cake.