October

September went by quite quickly. We celebrated Tom's second birthday with a cosy gathering and Tom got his plane cake (I only realised after looking at pics that his 1st birthday and christening cakes are the same colour as his 2nd birthday cake!!! Mental note to make sure next year I use a different colour.

I think S&J did enjoy their trip over to see us but they could have done without the final three days of bug attack. But they managed Xian to see the terracotta warriors, forbidden city, summer palace, a stay at the Raffles Beijing and of course the great wall.

The weather is thankfully not as cold as that in the UK but we are starting to feel the dryness and electricity shocks between me and Tom are becoming far too frequent for my liking. Note: the humidifier in the apartment doesn't seem to do it's job properly though my husband had predicted this fault blaming the price - but hey! when in china try to buy cheap right?....perhaps not...perhaps we need two units...

Lynn's Wedding

Our trip to KK for Lynn's wedding can be described in one word - fast. The wedding went as planned and so many turned up for the evening reception that there was no way to find friends. Relatives from my dad's side of the family came with lots of tapai (local rice wine) to drink and think everyone had a sip from specially made bamboo glasses.

Thomas started out looking very smart in his pageboy outfit but as he fell asleep when we arrived in church, he didn't make it for the aisle procession. Then because there was no air-conditioning in the church, my boy ended up so hot and sweaty he decided it was more fun playing with his little Emirates plane and eating raisins!

Anyhow, Lynn looked beautiful in her gown and was almost in tears as she recited her vows. Someone made a kiss sound over the microphone just as Vijay was about to give Lynn a kiss on the cheek as instructed by the priest (!) which shocked not only Vijay but also the priest. As is was a wedding blessing i.e. not full service, the whole thing was finished in less than an hour and we were off to my mum's house for the luncheon. The heavy downpour that arrived with the bridal car did not hamper our celebration and so it was on with the sosopon (drinking tapai from the huge jars with bamboo straws).

KK had changed in the short time since we've been away for the better - traffic less conjested due to opening of bypass. Anyhow, even though there was rain some days it was so good to wake up to blue skies and no pollution.

Beijing...leisurely times

Here are some pics of our daily life in the Chinese capital...

Visits to the park... Tom's favourite place to practice his golf swings. People here are into being healthy so you will see lots in the park exercising or early weekend mornings you will see them practice their fox trots. One of their favourite past time is flying kites but you can also catch them sleeping on the park benches as well as take their dates for a stroll - ah how romantic!

At home... We like our 2-bedroom apartment on the 15th floor. Our block is one of the 11 blocks of apartments called Lu Gang Jia Yuan Community located in the north of the city in the Wangjing (aka mini Korea) area. It's convenient in many ways: about 10mins away from work for J, a huge park is just next door, supermarkets and other shopping areas close by and the airport is only 20mins away.

Playtime at playgyms and at Gymboree....

Hong Kong

We enjoyed Hong Kong very much. Coming out from Beijing, it was like a breath of fresh air - the pollution there isn't as bad - but being understood by almost everyone was truly wonderful. Anyway, though our visit was mainly for reasons pertaining to visa extentions we tried to cramp in shopping and some sightseeing. Shopping was good - bought lots of stuff for Tom - and we also replaced our not-working camera with a new slim version.

Not that we went into every shopping mall but our favourite shopping centre was the Harbour City on the Kowlood part of the territory. The night cruise around Victoria Harbour in a Chinese junk called aqualuna was also enjoyable. The sound and light show was good too but think it would have been better, we think, if we were watching from the Kowloon side of the harbour instead of being on the boat. Anyway, the tram up to The Peak was also interesting and the views of HK from up there is fabulous.

Why Tom had fun? He got to go on an underground train (much better than the London underground btw), a boat, a tram, saw helicopters or helicop as he calls them, a car, a bus and if you include the plane ride well that just made his day. As you might have gathered by now - he loves anything mechanical.

Tourists in Beijing...

Places we've visited so far...

The Great Wall - Badaling section

First time we went was in early March. There was still snow up in the mountains and the wind was bitter cold. Tom was not impressed! James and his colleagues did the walk up to the top whilst Tom and I sought refuge in a cafe and had a delicious hot chocolate. Badaling is very tourist oriented with a shops lining the road up to the entrance. The second time Tom and I went up was with my mum in April. Weather was much better and all three managed to walk all the way up to the highest point (at least at Badaling anyway). My mum didn't think it was that tiring but I think some of the other climbers beg to differ! This time we went up via what they call sliding cars which are basically carts which travel on rollercoaster like rails. Tom thought the trip up was scary but the trip down was fun. Was it safe? I was strapped on and Tom's safety belt were my arms - but yes safe as the carts travelled attached to one another (there are 15 carts, 1 per person) travelling at slowish speed.

Tiananmen Square...

Is a large square of concrete slabs and like most touristy places in Beijing, is very crowded. The 'square' is actually part of the main gate through which you enter into the Forbidden City. When we went, there were loads of local tourists and a few groups of foreign tourists. Mao looks down upon us from the gate itself and he, together with the gate, seem to be the most sought after photo background. Our thoughts were on the pro-democrasy events of 1989 which became our main topic of conversation on site. Anyway, didn't stay very long as Wangfujing (main shopping area about 10 mins walk away) was calling and well, there were other places to explore...

Forbidden City

You think once your through Tiananmen Gate (and this is a claustrophobic experience to begin with) you're in the Forbidden City - think again. We walked what seemed to be miles before we reached Wumen Gate which is the proper entrance. Not to bore you with the historical reasons - let's just say it's for the emperor's security. Anyway, once you've bought your tickets and your own audio guides (optional) equipments you enter Wumen Gate through to FC - all 720,000 sq m of it. It is magnificient. Think the colours red and gold, mythical beasts, beautiful carvings everywhere - the details are beautiful. Like I said, it's huge so we only managed a few halls, a look at the emperor's throne (although you can only view from outside of the building's main door, it is still impressive. I only wished they did some dusting - the place looked run down), the nuptial bedroom (think there are 3 beds in the 'room') and we strolled through the imperial garden (where emperors chose their concubines and basically spent most of their leisure time). It was then out of the FC through Shenwumen Gate only to find that we have to walk around the palace moats and miles back to Tiananmen Square. Exhausting but certainly worth another visit.

Wangfujing Snack Street

Feel like having some Chinese satays? What about some scorpions? There are a lot of weird culinary treats here but if you're adventurous and like to try everything then there's loads to fill your appetite. I read about the place in Lonely Planet but my mum and I stumbled upon it by chance - because lots of people were coming out of there with yummy looking finger food. Have yet to take James there.

When you take organised tours they might also take you to The Ming Tombs, The Beijing Jade Museum and The Beijing Institute of Traditional Medicine amongst other places. They are interesting in their own way esp. the Ming Tombs but places like the Jade Museum and the traditional meds centre, well, they just think you're loaded and can't wait to spend a few or hopefully a hundred or so kuai (slang for Renmembi). Few photos taken in these places as I allowed Tom to fiddle so much with the camera it began to not work i.e. left pic taken at the tomb of Emperor Chang Ling at the Ming Tombs.

Beijing...To begin with

Many of you have been asking about our life in Beijing and what it’s like. As with other places in the world, Beijing has its positives and negatives. Note: please bear in mind the following is Beijing according to me who has only been here for 3 months.

First the bad.

No. 1: Beijing's rather infamous smoggy environment. When Tom and I first came to land at Beijing's Capital Airport we could not see the city until we were about 200 metres (well that’s what it felt like) from the ground. What I initially thought to be thick clouds, I soon discovered to be an almost impenetrable layer of smog aka pollution. When we got out of the airport that morning of 1st March, I looked up to the sky and almost choked. For a second I couldn’t breathe. Immediate thought: Shock. I truly have taken blue skies for granted and I missed them terribly. This is all despite prior warnings from husband. Sad Fact 1: Beijing has a target quota ‘blue sky days’ per year - think its 238. We rejoice when we wake up to a blue sky day. Sad Fact 2: Beijingers have started to see stars at night only recently. Sad Fact 3: The smoggy air is filled with pollution from nearby factories, construction sites and car fumes (an apparent source of lead poisoning because of the number of cars on the road - did you know that people here buy a total of 1,000 cars per day?!). Note: Next time you see pics of Beijingers with surgical masks on it really is NOT funny. Positive Fact 1: The most infectious disease is apparently the common cold - hurray! Those SARS days are thankfully gone. [Pic above: This is what we woke up to today - a non-blue sky day of course.] Blue sky days are beautiful...and look at that sunset...

No. 2: Extreme temperatures. It gets incredibly freezing cold in the winter (I have yet to experience this btw) and oven temperatures (this began two days ago) in the summer. Apparently winter sees drops in temperatures to below - 15° Celsius whilst in the summer we enjoy temperatures up to 40° Celsius. And by the way throughout these times it’s dry, sometimes windy (bitter cold wind in the winter) though better in the summer I suppose. Sad Fact 4: Because of freezing temps, Beijing is cloaked with one colour in winter - dirty claylike gray. Sad Fact 5: Body lotion is essential unless you can live with scaly, dry and itchy skin. Positive Fact 2: This year they recorded the highest temps in Jan & Feb (normally the coldest months) of up to 16° Celsius. Very good news for husband who is more accustomed to Sabah weather. Positive Fact 3: Spring, and am told, particularly Autumn is wonderful weather and is best time to visit. [Pic: Winter scene from apartment window and of Tom enjoying his first snow]

Warm Summer days means swimming, playing in the park, strolling around a garden

No. 3: Construction seems never ending. The city is physically developing fast. When we first chose the apartment in December, James warned that there was still on-going construction. Why am I not surprised that the on-going is still on-going? Sad Fact 6: There are construction sites every 200 or so metres. Which brings us to Positive Fact 4: Tom finds it fun to count number of cranes seen. In the words of my son, wow! Positive Fact 5: In anticipation of providing blue sky days during Olympic, we’ve heard that all construction will stop on 1st Jan 2008.

No. 4: Spitting is common. Sad Fact 7: My son thinks it’s funny and will attempt to imitate when I am not looking.

No. 5: Putonghua (modern standard mandarin to you and me) is not easy. My first attempts at the language drew not only curious questions (Where are you from? You look like Chinese, why you don’t speak Chinese?) but also in most cases laughter and shaking of heads. The language first sounded like sounds with lots of ‘r’ - I found out that it‘s very Beijing to have an ‘r’ to end words. I am now happy to say that despite very little training I can decipher words and can offer a word/phrase or two in return. Positive Fact 6: All the phrasebooks I’ve bought helps. Sad Fact 8: I have to bring them everywhere just in case.

No. 6: Crazy and almost lawless driving. Here it is all about tolerance. Taxi drivers are highly skilled in overtaking, driving within inches of the car in front and being able to quickly divert path to avoid collision with other cars, buses, horse carts, cyclists or pedestrians. Sad Fact 9: Sometimes when you least expect it they will give you your change back with false money. My experience: received ¥ 50 once. Positive Fact 7: Lady taxi drivers are better at not speeding and are also friendlier than their male counterparts. Positive Fact 8: At the speed in which everyone is driving you get to your destination fast.

Funny story in relation to taxi drivers and their ‘clean-up’ for the Olympic [From Scotland’s Sunday Herald (on-line)]: This week, a 12-item evaluation chart was published for taxi drivers: Male drivers must cut their hair short and female drivers should avoid dangly earrings or "odd" bright red or blonde hair. And there's to be no more spitting, littering or overcharging.

"Taxi drivers are a window through which the foreigners will see Beijing, and we need to further regulate their services," announced Liu Xiaoming, vice-director of the Beijing Transport Commission. Sporting a neatly cropped bowl haircut, crisp white shirt and ill-fitting dark suit, Liu sweated slightly under the media spotlight.
Body odour and a post-meal "garlic smell" inside cabs were persistent issues in written complaints from foreign officials and executives said his colleague, Liu Tongliang. "On top of that, many drivers love to smoke," said Liu Tongliang. "Some sensitive female passengers smell it, then refuse to get in the car."

So sensitive are the Lius about making the right impression upon the estimated 550,000 overseas Olympic visitors next year that the bureau is dispatching "undercover passengers" to sniff out the city's 277 cab firms. Rankings will be published, with the biggest stinker of all shut down.

Okay, now for the positive.

No. 1: People are friendly and helpful. However it is still all about face. Therefore, we try to avoid confrontations. One bad experience: we were on a narrow path outside the apartment, on our way out for dinner. We let Tom walk which of course takes slightly longer. Old man and his wife comes along. Old man pushes past James with a shoulder tackle. James let out a ‘humph’ sigh. Old man is furious and starts shouting. Tell me who’s fault was it in the first place? Sorry is hard to come by here. Positive Fact 9: You will get the gist of the language fast as even if you say ‘wor boo ming bai’ (I don’t understand) they keep talking anyway.

No. 2: Food is good here. Positive Fact 10: Beijing has plenty of expat thus the variety of food choice and restaurants to choose from. Chinese food varies from Shanghai, Sichuan, Xinjiang, and Yunnan. What’s famous in Beijing? Peking duck of course. Best restaurant to sample them is Da Dong Roast Duck. Yummy. Sad Fact 10: Because Beijing is massive and the fact that we live in the north of the city, restaurants are quite far to get to! I have no idea of distances so I calculate base on taxi fare from our apartment. ¥ 50 is quite far. Positive Fact 11: There are plenty for us to dine at. Note: We have not found a good Italian (I miss Little Italy), Japanese, Korean or even a good steak yet.

No. 3: Satellite TV can be obtained illegally and you pay nothing for subscription. Sad Fact 11: Most people have their satellite dish pinned to their building’s wall. Ours is free standing in our bedroom. We have since gotten over the sight of that ‘thing’. Sad Fact 12: Because I messed up our 1st installation settings, we now only have 12 channels therefore no StarWorld, AXN, Discovery Channel, HBO, Cinemax etc. Sad fact 13: We have asked supplier to change back to original setting. It has been two months and no sign of them yet. Positive Fact 11: We have ESPN and Star Sports (but with lots of basketball, NFL and baseball - James has not seen a live football or golf match since January), Hallmark, etc and National Geographic.
[pic - Notice the dish?]

No. 4: You can find loads of bargains here. Positive Fact 12: Clothes, bags, accessories, electrical appliances, shoes - anything for that matter - can all be very, very cheap. All depends where you shop of course as the likes of Prada etc. can be found in Beijing. Sad Fact 14: You have to bargain for deals. Be prepared for shouting, rude sales assistants who may also pull you and sit you down until you buy the product. This of course only happens in the famous markets here i.e. YaShio, Silk Market (have yet to discover its bargains), Jiayi and Sunny Golden Market though think there is more of these markets in town. Note: Bargain goods are all fake even if they tell you it's grade A product, don’t believe them.

No. 5: DVDs are plenty. Positive Fact 13: They can be bought very cheaply at ¥ 10 per disc. That’s 66p to you in the UK and RM4.47 to you in KK. Positive Fact 14: The quality is superb and they offer dvd5 or dvd9 or was that dvd12 - can’t remember. Sad Fact 15: They are all pirated. Positive Fact 15: We live very close to the best place to get them. Positive Fact 16: They stock up-to-date stuff.

No. 6: Broadband is cheap therefore one can be online all the time.

No. 7: History and culture is rich here. Positive Fact 17: Main attractions (Forbidden City, Tiananmen Square, Ming Tombs, Great Wall, Summer Palace) are close to where we live. And there is a long list of places near enough to explore on day excursions.

No. 8: Olympic Village is close to Wangjing (where we live). Positive Fact 18: The main Olympic stadium is about 10mins taxi ride from our apartment. Anyone intending to visit us during that time please book earlier. Room, sofa, floor available on first come first serve basis.

This is all I can manage at this time - otherwise this post will not be published. Will update you as I discover more of Beijing. In the meantime, I will summarise Beijing as follows: An interesting city. Colourful in many aspects and though the pollution casts a gloomy spell, Beijing is very liveable and I at least am beginning to like it very much.

Copenhagen

Finally some time to update. Thought I should start with our visit to Juliet and Per in Copenhagen in Feb. Tom and I arrived on 1st Feb in the evening and Per kindly came and picked us up from the airport as Liet was working in another part of town. We were treated to delicious seafood paella ala Per for dinner - home cooked meal always a treat!

The next day Liet took us to a zoo (Zoologisk Have) nearby and then to the city centre. Felt safe and unintimidated in Copenhagen. Lots of people on bicycles some with attached carriages in which their children sit or just carts. I couldn't believe how family friendly all the services were. Buses and underground all catered for strollers - it was easy to move around.

Then we had blue skies for Saturday which was just as well as it was a sightseeing day. Went to the city centre again where we enjoyed the architecture including the palace, strolled along the famous harbour in Nyhavn, and of course visited Den Lille Havfrue - the Little Mermaid. Per toned down my expectations for this maiden but I was still impressed all the same.

After breakfast on Sunday, Per and Liet took us to the airport and off we went back to Wells. A very enjoyable trip and glad to have finally made it to see the both there. Hope Per has found all the rubberbands which Tom has been hiding in various places in their apartment! Thanks you two for a wonderful time. Still owe you dinner....!

christening

A little slow (!!) in updating (sorry Lynn and Si). Got back from our holiday in Wells, England and we had a very enjoyable time especially Tom. The christening was just as we expected if not better. Weather was wonderful and we enjoyed our friends' company.

After the Christening service...














Tom certainly enjoyed the company of Luca Fricker (only days younger than T, our friends Geoff and Gemma's son) and Lenka Carter (1yr8mths - James' cousin Kirsty's daughter). Kirsty stood in for Tom's godmother, Shirley, who couldn't make it to the christening.

Luca



















and Lenka



















The pic below is of us after the Christening with the Rev. Goodman, Simon Hoskins (Godfather), Lenka and Kirsty, and Grandma and Grandpa.

With Grandpa (Grandma was very busy so did not get to take pic with her!) inside the church and with daddy (below) outside

Pics Below: With Godfather then Si looking very comfortable. With Matt and Michelle - thank you Matt for taking the video at Church. Pics below are of Tom with his Great Grandpa Harold and his christening cake.

my little smile bringer

My cousin Amanda's 20th birthday today - can't believe how fast they are all growing up. Tom with the birthday girl and with Moing and Godmother Shirley and second cousin Heather.














I think Tom knows he's being photographed now - look at his pose and those smiles? More pic of him in action:

updates...

Tom now has his Malaysian passport so we are ready for our hols in the UK at the end of the month - we can't wait as a holiday is very much needed. His sixth teeth, though has already cut his gum, is taking forever to grow so not sure what's happening there but there is no shortage of biting my shoulders.

Have I mentioned that he is a fast crawler now? And since our visit to our friend Celine's house so he can play with kids similar his age, he has discovered the joys of playing with things on wheels so this morning J got his remote control car out and it was a hit. Tom was chasing the car around the apartment!

Baby Einstein videos are also very much his interest these days and is mostly that he's allowed to watch on TV. Favourite at the moment is Baby MacDonald and in particular the hand puppets.

House - Basically it's progressing but in a little slower pace than anticipated. The outside wall paints are on and work on the flooring has started. As you can see the windows are in too though think they will only install the sliding glass doors when the floor tiles have been installed.

engagement

Wonderful news this week - my sister and Vijay have decided it's time to tie the knot so their engagement will take place in Sept this year. My mum is happy as can be expected and Lynn, over the moon, has set herself planning for the big day and as I am in KK and she in Dubai, I will be helping out with the organising. Another celebration to look forward to. [Pic: Tom with Aunty Lynn earlier this year].

At our home there hasn't been much going on. J busy as usual at work and T has caught the flu bug. You'd think that he would be a little quieter than usual but no my son thinks his voice is the best thing ever so has been shouting (and VERY loud too) quite a bit just to make sure we agree. Not sure if it's the medication but T is now sleeping through the night which is brilliant. Couldn't quite believe it. The first night this happened we were told that there was a bad storm - apparently one of the worst KK has experienced - but neither one of us heard it! Out like a log all three.

More pics of Tom...